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Thursday
04Feb2010

Pencil grip frustration

Parents assume that pushing academic learning earlier is better for children - stimulating their minds - and certainly does no harm.  But what if it does? There's extensive research showing that young children learn best through play and there are no studies showing that ACADEMIC preschool results in more successful students.  Preschool itself certainly does - because children learn independence, conflict resolution, group participation and more.

What's the harm?

Early "instruction" in writing could lead to more children having trouble learning to write neatly (print or cursive).  Counter-intuitive, but a group of elementary school teachers shared their frustration with me.  See - when preschool children play with crayons, they hold the crayons however they like and they scribble.  But when they make a letter, they're forcing their hands into a repetitive motion. Some preschool teachers know how to teach the appropriate grip and some preschool hands have the fine motor skill to do it.

But the other children often develop an awkward way of holding their crayons/pencils/markers.  And that grip becomes a habit that needs to be broken.  Breaking a habit is a lot harder than learning from scratch.

In kindergarten - at age 5 or so - the fine motor skills are there and the teachers are skilled in developing proper grip.  Without a proper grip, it's hard, but not impossible, to write neatly.  And there's really no rush - learning to write well in kindergarten and into first grade will serve our children well.

Scribbling and playing with writing is great fun.  Learning to write letters is more exacting. What do you think - should they be writing letters in pre-school?  Or should we wait for kindergarten to teach kids to write?

 

 

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Reader Comments (2)

Funny. I am just going thru this with one of the twins. I show her how to hold the pencil, fork, crayon, during fun activities or eating something sweet. She tries and then goes back to the grip. And, then sometimes she does it on her own! They turned 3 in Nov. I will not be enrolling her in preschool unlike so many moms where I live who do at a very early age. I really let her let me know what she is capable of handling while not limiting her growth by my limitations! She is started to read and write letters but I make it fun. I think you always want to keep your child challenged and I am worried about finding a school that can keep up with her. I am thankful for my great public school teachers because I did not have any home schooling or preschooling. I think all students will catch up on abilities upon their willingness to learn it. Just for the record, my husband the ENT still does not write neatly!

February 4, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterMaureen

I wrote letters in preschool and I still hold my pencil wrong!

February 4, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterJoellyn Palomaki

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